I first began "ISO" for fun back in 1996. I was ready to date after coming out of an 8 year relationship. I wanted to see "what else" was out there other than my old insecure, jealous boyfriend...good riddens! For those of you who never tried ISO, please take my advice, go ahead and try! I have met some wonderful and handsome gentlemen through this and some I even hold dear to my heart and memory (that's my secret). I'll share a quick story... I never knew what "going-dutch" meant until one of my dates through ISO. I thought it was cute when my date tells me that we're going dutch. Since I has Puerto Rican I thought he was being funny. Little did I know when our dinner bill came the waitress handed me my "going-dutch". I was broke that day and I owed him for that dinner. My share was $35.98 plus half the tip. What a cheap guy that was! But most of my experiences were great. I did not have much luck finding "Mr. Right" back then, until I decided to place another ad again in 1999. I checked my voice box and there it was, finally! It's like hitting the lottery. Love at last! Today, we have a 6 year old son and have been married for seven wonderful and happy years. I met the most honest, humble and hard working man ever in this whole wide world. I have since quit my job, because my husband is old fashioned and is VERY successful in his career. I got lucky and love my life! He's so good to us and is a great husband and father.